Greetings gentlemen!

This is The Dating Dose! We're like a multi-talented bartender, always ready to pour up the best advice, served on the rocks of wisdom and garnished with a twist of charm.

In today's dose... 💉

📝 30 Golden Nuggets of Dating Wisdom
📕 Summer Solo Weekend Ideas
👀 BIG NEWS! Don’t miss it…

And more!

AWESOME LINKS...🌐
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🗞️ 12 Men Describe Their Dream Girl (link)

📺 Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It (link)

📌 Summer Solo Weekend Ideas (link)

HEART OF THE MATTER
We often say taking dating advice from your single guy friends is kinda like the blind leading the blind.

But we’re flipping the script today, boys.

We rolled up our sleeves, broke out our top-shelf tequila, and got to talking with 30 of our best and brightest clients from the last few years. These are men who have turned their dating lives around, gone from zero to hero, and are now enjoying the kinds of relationships they only once dreamed of.

We asked them one simple question:

You can't ignore wisdom when it comes from those who have walked the path before you. So without further ado, we present to you….

30 Golden Nuggets of Dating Wisdom… (from real men who have done the work!)

1. "After divorce, stop looking for 'the one'" — Alan, 46, now dates more freely with no expectation of marriage.

2. “Join a co-ed sports league" — Dimitri, 37, mixed his love for softball with opportunities to meet new women, discovering a whole new playground of potential dates.

3. “Try to get set up on a blind date" — Josh, 41, found the excitement of not knowing what someone looks like to be a fun experiment, and loved the mini break from dating apps where looks take centre stage.

4. "Do new stuff on dates" — Vince, 40, spices up his dates by choosing activities that are brand new to both of them, finding that it always brings laughter to the experience.

5. "Love yourself first" — Raj, 43, believes that self-love sets the foundation for a healthy relationship.

6. "Just say Hi" — Carlos, 41, reminds us that a simple greeting can break the ice - any place, any time.

7. "Don’t worry about who messages first" — Tom, 42, found that not overthinking who initiates contact made his dating experiences less stressful and more authentic.

8. "Start traveling to date" — Manuel, 41, expanded his dating pool by visiting other cities, realizing location significantly affected his dating life for the better.

9. "Keep it light" — Martin, 48, suggests keeping early conversations easygoing and baggage-free.

10. "Be intentional and crystal clear about what you want" — Brian, 39, values clarity and intentionality in his dating life, even if it's something as big as wanting kids and marriage.

11. "Approach dates with no expectations or outcome in mind and do your best to enjoy the moment" — Paul, 43, focuses on the experience rather than the endgame, finding it makes the date far more enjoyable.

12. "Ask questions" — TJ, 34, believes that showing genuine interest makes her remember you.

13. "Get in shape and better yourself" — Mosi, 42, took his physical health seriously and found it improved his confidence and dating life.

14. "Authenticity over perfection" — Allen, 41, advises against overly refined dating profiles.

15. "Take risks in love" — Ian, 44, advises that some risks are worth the reward, like asking someone out who seems out of your league, or confessing your feelings first.

16. "Take breaks from apps" — Chris, 45, recommends an occasional digital detox for sanity and emphasizes the value of in-person interactions, like joining social clubs or attending charity events.

17. "Short walks or mountain bike rides make a great first date" — Robert, 35, sees the benefit in choosing a physical activity he loves, making the experience enjoyable regardless of the outcome.

18. "Don't rely on text chemistry" — Henry, 50, reminds that a bad texter doesn't mean there won’t be real-life sparks. Pick up the damn phone.

19. "Communication solves everything" — Krishna, 45, believes good communication is the bedrock of forming a relationship.

20. "Have reasonable boundaries" — Eddie, 39, realized that setting boundaries is an important part of a healthy dating life.

21. "Honesty wins" — Youssef, 44, says to be upfront if it's not working out, and to never ghost someone.

22. "Keep expanding your social circles" — Wei, 34, discovered that new people were the secret untapped resource where he met his now-girlfriend.

23. "Improving your physique makes the biggest difference" — Andy, 39, noticed that as he got into better shape, he started getting a lot more attention from women (both online and offline).

24. "Maintain your independence" — Vlad, 40, notes that after his divorce, he realized the importance of prioritizing his own individuality while dating, and quickly found this to be a quality that helped him meet someone sooner.

25. "Give it three dates" — Dan, 41, suggests allowing at least three meet-ups to give everyone a fair chance, including yourself, before jumping to (usually wrong!) conclusions.

26. "Approach dating like you’re hanging out with a stranger… because you are!" — Sunil, 45, avoids making up a ‘rom-com’ in his head about each date. He says treating it like a meetup with a friendly stranger takes the pressure off.

27. "It's not always about you" — Dhillon, 39, advises not to take rejection too personally and promises that every rejection teaches something valuable.

28. "Make more money and give zero fuss" — Tariq, 40, shifted his focus towards personal growth and financial stability, finding that it not only made him more attractive but also allowed him to approach dating with a chill, no-pressure attitude.

29. "Remember, you're a catch too! Remind yourself of this often." — Carl, 41, emphasizes knowing your worth.

30. "Don't rush into anything" — Doug, 46, advises being patient and says that good things take time. (Fun fact: Doug was engaged 3 times before it finally worked out!)

And there you have it — top shelf tips shaken and stirred by men who were once navigating through the high tide of dating, just like you.

These aren't just tips though; they're lifelines, handed down from guys who've faced the same challenges, questions, and similar experiences. While some were a little out of left field (thanks Manuel... 🙈), for the most part, you can see that it comes back to the basics. Oh, what a relief!

And now, we say thank you for all the help from our wonderful clients, but it's time to pass back the baton.

Before you go, one last tip from the favorite women in your life (that's us, right?)...

The person you desire to become is already within you, not outside of you. Trust us when we say you have the answers. So keep it simple and keep dating ✌🏽

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THE USUAL...💓
O-G-A

📱 Online dating tip of the week:

Inspired by Chris (Tip #16) - give your index finger a break and take a digital dating detox! Look up some local singles events, like speed dating.

🧠 Growth Man Quote:

“…when a man really DESIRES a thing so deeply that he is willing to stake his entire future on a single turn of the wheel in order to get it, he is sure to win.” - Napolean Hill

🪞 Affirmation of the week:

I don’t have to be great to start, but I have to start to be great.

MAN UP MISSION TEASER...💪
'Wisdom Workout 🏋️‍♂️’

Your Man Up Mission is 1 practical 'to-do' item each week to keep you moving, motivated, and manly! It’s designed to help you put theory into practice and see tangible results in your dating life.

This week's mission is called: Wisdom Workout!

t's a 7-day circuit of mini-challenges aimed at fine-tuning your dating life. Think of it as your high-intensity interval training for dating — straight from the pros!

📬 Delivery Date: Your mission details will be delivered straight to your inbox this coming Saturday morning!

Don’t miss it!

Until then, go over today’s Heart of the matter article (above) — re-read it, soak it in, take notes, and keep your eyes peeled for how to put it into action.

AND AS ALWAYS...

💡How We Can Help

• 🤝 Grab 1:1 time with Coach Kavita, dating expert and love life coach for men.

That's all for now!
Thanks for reading, and see you next time 🫡
-The Dating Dose Team ❤️

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