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📺 Instagram Live: Is Porn Addiction keeping you single?

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👥 Huddle Eleven Elite: Releasing your Fear of Rejection

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This Week’s Top Dating Tips

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Your Texting Game is Weak Sauce.

And here’s what to do about it.

In today’s world, most budding relationships never see the light of day.

And it’s not your fault.

Especially with over 40% of people meeting online.

You see… keeping up momentum with a stranger on a 2-D screen isn’t exactly natural.

So if you’re not great at texting and you know your personality shines better in person, don’t worry.

The biggest mistake people make is viewing texting as a strategy to get to know her.

But you’re dead wrong. And it’s exactly why most conversations fizzle out, and she eventually stops texting back.

The goal of texting in the early stages is simple: to move the conversation forward in order to land your next date. That’s it, that’s all.

Use these 3 tips and she will always text you back 👇

Tip 1: End every text with a question.

I can’t tell you how many guys don’t do this 🤦🏻‍♀️

Questions create curiosity about what’s to come and why you’re asking.

More importantly, they make it easier for her respond and keep the conversation flowing.

For example:

• ❌ Wrong: "Thanks, it was good, just a lot of work and heading to the gym now"
   

• ✅ Right: "Thanks, it was good, just a lot of work and heading to the gym now. Any fun plans this weekend?"

See how the second one keeps the conversation moving and plants the seed for a date?

Tip 2: Keep it SIMPLE! (For the love of god, keep it simple)

Long complicated messages overwhelm her.

People are busy. So when she glances at her phone and you've sent 3 giant paragraphs of text, it's no wonder you're waiting forever to get a response.

❌ Wrong: "Wow, that’s so cool! I can’t believe you’ve been to Italy twice. I went years ago… food was amazing. Love that you tried making homemade pasta. I always wanted to, but it seems so hard. Also, do you like wine? Red or white? Anyway, I’ve been thinking about traveling more too, maybe next year, depending on work…"

✅ Right: "Italy sounds amazing! Can’t wait to hear more. And I gotta tell you about my last trip there… But it’s a story that needs to happen over drinks. Free Friday?"

Short, clear and conversational keeps up the momentum. Save the stories for date night.

Tip 3: Text with purpose

Nothing kills your texting game with a dead-end convo.

Every exchange should be moving you closer to securing a date.

Example:

• ❌ Wrong: “That’s awesome!”

•  ✅ Right: “That’s awesome! Let’s talk more about it over coffee. Free this weekend?”

FALL IN LOVE IN 2025….

If the thought of spending 2025 falling in love with the woman of your dreams is exciting to you…. here’s how to make it happen:

1️⃣ Huddle Eleven Elite – Join my premium group coaching program for men to see REMARKABLE shifts in love.

2️⃣ Find Your Forever Person – My flagship dating course designed to help you kickstart your journey to finding love.

DM me “Dating Dose” on Instagram and I’ll personally chat with you so you can learn more.

And that’s a wrap, gents!

Remember, texting isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection. Keep it fun, keep it purposeful, and watch how things fall into place.

Oh, and if you’re ready to level up your dating life in 2025, DM me the word ‘Text Game’ on Instagram—I’d love to hear from you! ❤️

Here’s to making 2025 your best year yet✨✨

-Coach Kavita ❤️

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—Coach Kavita ❤️