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The Dating Dose
October 28, 2023
"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
— Wayne Dyer
Greetings Gentlemen!
This is The Dating Dose! And I’m Coach Kavita, a Dating Coach for Men with 10+ years experience.
I help growth-minded men (just like you) re-enter the dating world, build unshakable confidence, and find LOVE! ❤️
Each week, I’ll be here sharing the kind of expert dating advice and insights that clients pay the big bucks for 💰
For you, it’s all free! Let’s get into it 👇🏽👇🏽
Let’s kick off with some awesome NEWS!
🤯 We’ve made some changes to The Dating Dose… I’ve decided to make it more action-focused!
You’ll notice the featured ‘dating deep dive’ is now shorter in length. I’ll shed light and expertise on a dating topic men struggle with, followed by actionable solutions in your weekly Man Up Mission.
You’ll be getting one action-packed email every Saturday with everything you need to thrive in your dating life!
That means The Man Up Mission will no longer arrive in a separate email on Sunday.
In today's dose... 💉
🤷 Alpha Male or Sensitive Guy?
🥰 Your Man Up Mission “Clean Slate, Clear Heart”
🚩 Reg Flag/ Green Flag
And more!
AWESOME STUFF I FOUND FOR YOU THIS WEEK…
The Best On The Net
ALPHA MALE VS SENSITIVE GUY - DATING DEEP DIVE
Ever feel like everyone's got an opinion about dating…
And the more you listen, the more you feel like you're getting it all wrong?
So, a client recently DM’d me on Instagram👇🏽
First, let me tell you this guy's a catch—kind-hearted, emotionally tuned in, and has a fulfilling life brimming with hobbies.
Yet he's struggling to meet someone.
As you can see from his message, he’s convinced he needs to turn into an "alpha male" to be noticed by women.
Also, friends are telling him to play games and that treating women poorly is the only thing that ‘works’.
I started wondering about his online influences. Chances are, if he’s following me, he must be consuming other dating content too. Turns out, he was.
The issue is, Instagram, YouTube, and the like, are full of self-proclaimed 'know-it-alls' selling the idea that there's just 'one type of man' that women want.
But after years of coaching both men and women, I can confirm these so-called 'experts' don't even scratch the surface of what the dating world is actually like.
Some women go for the macho type, while others are more drawn to a sensitive individual.
And of course, there's a vast array of personalities in between. The simple truth is, we’re all different in our unique ways and there is someone for everyone.
Here’s more good news, if deep down you know your worth, and you continue to invest in personal growth and self-awareness (often referred to as 'the inner work'), the problem isn't you…
But it might be time to change who you’re listening to and what you're taking in.
Dating isn't just about finding your person; it's also about finding a perspective that feels right and genuinely resonates with you…
Ready to take proactive steps toward that? 😍👇🏽
IT’S TIME FOR ACTION! HERE’S THIS WEEK’S MISSION…
'Clean Slate, Clear Heart’
When I coach clients, we don't just chat over coffee. We roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty.
That's why every week, I bring you the Man Up Mission. Think of it as your weekly homework with a fun twist, designed to get you real results in your dating life.
You can’t have confidence in something until you do it.
📬 ‘Clean Slate, Clear Heart’ is all about reclaiming your mental space and realignment!
Over the next 7 days, your mission is to begin consciously curating an environment—both digital and physical—that nourishes your true self. Each step builds on the next.
Step 1 - Digital Audit 📱💻
Start with your online world. Accounts that make you doubt yourself or don’t align with your core values? Unfollow. Content that doesn't resonate or even worse, makes you feel lesser? Peace out ✌🏽! Remember, your feed should feed your soul and confidence, not diminish it.
Step 2 - Physical Clean-Up 📚🗣️
Your physical environment is equally important. Are there friends who give you toxic advice? It might be time for an honest discussion. Or others who constantly complain about dating? You may need to take some space. Be it people, Netflix or reading material, it’s time to cut out the bad and surround yourself with positivity and genuine insights about relationships.
Step 3 - Turn Your Confidence around FAST 😌
The fastest way to realign? Tap into your confidence!! So, that client I’ve been talking about… The way it all came together for him was because soon after that DM exchange, he took my Confidence Workshop and bam 💥! In less than 2 hours he felt like a renewed person, seeing totally different results with women instantly.
Give yourself the gift of this impactful, and game-changing workshop (It’s self-study and taught by me) for only 99 bucks. Trust me; it's the thing you've been waiting for to battle the BS and feel good again. Buy it now before the price goes up on Nov 1st.
And those are the 3 steps!
Once you've decluttered, and started to rebuild your confidence, you're left feeling amazing and with a clean slate—a space that's ready to be refilled with what truly serves you.
💡Pro-tip - Spend 10 mins a day and read stories that reflect the positive side of dating. Browse the #itstartedwithbumble hashtag or visit r/SingleAndHappy on Reddit. It's about seeking inspiration (not making comparisons). Engage with content that aligns with what you want to see more of, guiding those sneaky algorithms in the right direction. Over time, your feeds will become more uplifting and affirming.
Remember, Man Up Missions are about YOUR learnings, progress and development on the dating scene. You got this! 💪🏽
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That's all for now!
If you wanna work with me, text me “I want to change!” at (647) 372-5414, and I’ll personally respond🫡
—Coach Kavita ❤️