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How to approach women at coffee shops ☕
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How to approach women at coffee shops ☕
OK, so you're ready to dip your toes back into the dating pool…
The most important thing you can do right now is to simply get more comfortable talking to women. That's right, it's time to exercise those sleeping social muscles.
This is your new goal: find as many opportunities to practice talking to women as possible. And remember, this doesn't just apply to women you find attractive, but to all women 👩🏻👩🏼👩🏽
We can already hear you thinking, 'But what if I get rejected?'.
We're gonna let you in on a secret...
Women who are actually looking to date actually want to be approached!
For the rest of them, here's a simple rule of thumb: unless there's a ring 💍, you're free to engage in a conversation. If they're not available, they'll let you know. Plus, with our respectful and warm approach, even if they are taken, you'll still brighten their day.
What kind of conversational opportunities should you be looking for?
Well, given that you're just getting back into the swing of things, we want you to seize pretty much any chance you get in your daily routine.
This could be as simple as a chat with the barista while you're getting your morning coffee, or a quick talk with the grocery store cashier as you check out.
Don't shy away from striking up a conversation with women at the dog park 🐶 the gym, or even during your commute.
Opportunities are all around - in the library, a restaurant, or at your office.
What's the best way to kick off these exchanges?
🔑 Keeping it simple is key. Broad, open-ended questions lay down the welcome mat for things to unfold organically. Just make sure your approach is warm and done with a natural smile on your face.
Here are a few examples that are both easy and effective: