This Week’s Top Dating Tips

🎞️ ‘Nice Guys’ are red flags (link)
🎞️ American women are tired of ‘High Status’ men (link)
🎞️ The biggest lie dating coaches tell men (link)

The story keeping you stuck

So many successful single men are carrying around a story that isn't even theirs.

It goes something like this: women only want men who are rich, good-looking, or high-status.

And if you're not there yet, you're out of the running.

It's not your fault.

Society loves extremes. The millionaire with the yacht. The guy in his parents' basement.

That's all you ever see.

But nobody talks about the giant middle, where most guys actually are.

The ambitious man who's building something.

Who wants the good things in life and is actively working toward them.

Who hasn't found his person yet, but shows up every day trying to grow.

That guy exists. And he deserves a dating life that reflects who he's becoming, not who he used to be.

Instead, what usually happens is this: he waits. Crosses his fingers.

Hopes he'll bump into the right person.

And when he finally does, he puts everything on that one connection, because she feels like the first real shot he's had in a while.

That pressure kills it every time.

Here's what I know after 13 years of coaching men: you can't shift out of old patterns if you can't see them. 

The overtexting. The overanalyzing. The shrinking.

It all keeps running in the background until something interrupts it.

That's what a coach is for.

Not to fix you. You're not broken.

But to help you see yourself more clearly, show up differently, and actually build the dating life you keep saying you want.

I'm opening up 6 new spots in The Huddle this April.

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With love,
Coach Kavita 🫶🏽