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💌 How To Be "That Guy"

This Week’s Top Dating Tips
If you want to come across as super interesting and be the guy all women have their eyes on, you are making one big mistake.
Whether it's on dating apps, parties, or approaching women, you think you need to blend in.
But here's the problem. When you take note of what most guys do, guess what happens? You end up becoming like most guys.
But I'm going to teach you how to become that guy. The one that all the girls can't take their eyes off of.
So I'm staying at this hotel right now and they just opened up. I've had my eye on the manager because he's hard to ignore. The way he moves through the rooms is a work of art.
And here's the truth. Most hotel managers will focus on surface level things. Making sure the food is yummy, the pool is shining, and the rooms super clean. All important things.
But this guy is a pro and I can see it a mile away. His priority is making a connection with every guest he crosses. He knows the success of this hotel is on his shoulders.
Just like the success of your dating life is on yours.
So how is he doing this? There are three things in particular that I noticed:
On the first day, he was wearing a bright crisp orange shirt. That way he doesn't blend into the crowd and it makes him noticeable without even having to do anything.
The second thing is that he immediately extends his arm out to every single person to shake their hand. He smiles and introduces himself, giving them his time and attention.
And the last one is so important.
While making conversation, he casually reminds us that the hotel is brand new. Rather than pretending to be perfect and set expectations high, this subconsciously reminds everyone that even though it's a five star resort, they're still human and to go easy on them.
So guys, you are overcomplicating your love life when it can actually be so simple.
Stop being a wallflower and step into your hotel manager energy.
Wear the shirt that makes you stand out. Start connecting with not just women, but everyone. And lastly, don't pretend to be perfect. Vulnerability creates connection.
So whether you just moved to the city or you're feeling a bit nervous at a party, it's better to just own it because authenticity is your superpower.
You see...
The hotel manager wasn't managing rooms, he was managing people.
That bright orange shirt?
It's not about being flashy, it's about being unforgettable.
His open arm and genuine attention?
That's connection, not just small talk.
And owning that the hotel is brand new?
That's vulnerability, a magnet for trust.
So guys, you are overcomplicating your love life when it can actually be so simple.
Stop being a wallflower and step into your hotel manager energy.
Wear the shirt that makes you stand out.
Start connecting with not just women, but everyone.
And lastly, don't pretend to be perfect. Vulnerability creates connection.
So whether you just moved to the city or you're feeling a bit nervous at a party, it's better to just own it because authenticity is your superpower.
Here's the truth: Women aren't looking for perfect.
They want a man who's real, present, and confident enough to stand out without trying too hard.
With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️
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