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Wanna know the #1 answer I get when I ask a man what he wishes he could change about his dating life?

"Being able to approach women."

And guys, I get it.

You see a woman you're into... and your mind goes completely blank.

You have no clue what to say.

So you say nothing. And she walks away.

But that all changes today.

I call it the "First Pitch" Method.

This method has eliminated the fear of approaching women for countless clients of mine.

And here's the best part. Ready?

It doesn't really matter what you say...

As long as you get her attention.

This 7 second clip from Seinfeld is a perfect example 👇🏽

I can already hear you thinking… "But Coach K, that's a TV show!"

I knew you'd come at me! That's why I was thrilled when I found this…

Sam Parr, a well-known serial entrepreneur and the ultimate growth-minded man, shares a quick story about his approach back in his single days.

Fast-forward to the 1-minute mark to see how it's done 👇🏼

Boom 💥 Sam Parr met his now-wife using my First Pitch Method.

Now do you believe me?

Good. Now let me break it down so you can do it too…

The First Pitch Method: How To Approach Her In 4 Easy Steps 👋🏼

Step 1: Say something random or silly that's enough to get her attention on you.

Here are some examples…

• "You know… this place is supposedly haunted."

• "You know, I'm the one responsible for (the weather today)."

• "You know, I'm the reason they invented the (cappuccino)."

• "You know, I'm the inventor of the (wine glass)."

• "You know, I can run really really fast…"

Step 2: She responds with either a playful "Oh really?" or a curious "Huh?"

This is your cue…

Step 3: Keeping the mood light, tell her the truth and introduce yourself.

• "Not really…….. but I needed something to break the ice. I'm [your name] by the way. What's your name?"

From there, keep the conversation moving with simple questions.

Like how her night is going, what got her to the event, who she knows, if she lives in the area, that kind of stuff.

Step 4: The only transition you'll ever need

If the vibes are good, end off with a casual "Well it was nice meeting you, I gotta get going…"

Followed by one of these:

• "How do we keep in touch after this?"

• "Are you on Instagram?"

• "Wanna grab a drink sometime?"

• "Cool if I text you this week?"

Now here's the part nobody tells you...

You'll fumble 80% of the time.

And that's totally normal.

When you go up to a woman, be sincere and respectful, and release your expectations.

The goal isn't to have an agenda. It's to connect, have fun, and make her day better.

And here's the good news...

If you fumble 80% of the time, it means 20% of the time, it will work.

That's one phone number, date or Instagram exchange for every 5 attempts.

So keep showing up gents!

With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️