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Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻‍♀️ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.

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Does Hitting On Women at the Grocery Store Work? YES! 😍

In most scenarios, landing a date or phone number usually involves 3 key stages…

1. Breaking the ice: Start a light conversation.

2. Carrying on the conversation: Keep it interesting!

3. Shooting your shot: Get her digits or ask her out.

This process can take hours at a bar, and days (or even weeks!) on an app.

But not at the grocery store! 

The beauty of the supermarket is you get to skip the longest part—the middle.

No drawn-out conversations are expected between the kiwis and the kale, so you can shoot your shot much faster.

It’s kinda like express check-out 😉 🥦

The 5/5 Supermarket Approach

The 5/5 Supermarket Approach is my 5-step, 5-minute playbook for Aisle Romance.

Here’s how it works…

Step 1 - Send a friendly signal 👋🏽

Spotted someone you’re curious about? Perfect. But no need to hover! Be mindful of her personal space while signaling your interest in a respectful manner—like making eye contact, offering a genuine smile, or giving a casual wave.

This sets a friendly tone and lets you gauge her interest before taking the next step.

Step 2 - Say something relatable 💬

Time to break the ice. Avoid comments about her looks—it’s not the place for that. Instead, use what’s around you to start a conversation. Here are some ideas:

• "Hey, was looking for that granola 😅 Where’d you find it?"

• "You’re the second person I’ve seen grabbing that snack today 😊 Is it that good?"

• "Can you believe these prices, $8 for oranges - crazy 🤪!"

• "An apple a day keeps the doctor away, right? At least that’s the plan 😉."

Not every opener has to be a question. Keep it light and give her the chance to respond.

Step 3 - Assess her body language 🤔

Now, you’ve gotta quickly read her body language:

🟢 Green lights: She stops shopping, faces you, chats, or smiles.

🔴 Red lights: Even if she responds, her back is turned, or she keeps moving.

If you’re getting green lights, great! Move to the next step. If it’s a no-go, just wish her a nice day and carry on.

Step 4 - Introduce yourself and create trust 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

Share a little slice of your life to build trust. Here are some ideas:

"I'm Ben, by the way. Working from home has turned me into a snack fiend! Trying to make better choices this week."

"I’m Ben, by the way. Having friends over for a barbecue this weekend, stocking up coz they eat everythinggg. Do you live nearby?"

These details create trust and give her something to engage with.

Step 5 - Shoot your shot 🏀

Once you’re in friendly banter territory, take action. You can keep it low-stakes by asking to exchange social media:

"This has been nice! Would you be open to connecting on Instagram?"

Or, if you’re feeling bold, step it up:

"You seem really nice! Would you be open to exchanging numbers?"

And if everything aligns perfectly:

"Are you busy after this? I’ll be done in 10 minutes if you want to grab a coffee—no pressure!"

🍅 Extra Insights: 3 Key Timing and Location Tips

1. Go when you actually need groceries. Pretending to shop is no bueno and will create a weird energy.

2. Go when it’s busy, like Saturday mornings. Depending on where you live, this might require a little groundwork.

3. Go to high-end supermarkets if you’re looking to meet health conscious professionals.

Is it time to take charge of your dating life? Are you…

• Terrified of approaching women and starting conversations

• Frustrated with self-sabotaging behaviours

• Fed up with gaining traction, then slipping back to square one

• Tired of low self-esteem and not being able to take charge

• Constantly guessing where you stand with women

• And simply REALLY not enjoying your dating life

How would you like to experience this instead 👇🏽

• Charmingly approach women anytime anywhere with ease

• Break free from self-sabotage cycles and know how to have healthier relationship habits

• Know how to move and progress a relationship forward with confidence and assurance

• Skyrocket your confidence from a level 3 to a level 10 and feel DAMN GOOD about yourself

• Learn to communicate effectively, be assertive, and get what you want from dating interactions

• And have an EXCITING, active dating life that’s abundant and fun!

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—Coach Kavita ❤️