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💌 Fastest Way To Kill Attraction

This Week’s Top Dating Tips
Most men never figure this out.
The fastest way to kill attraction is to pretend you like everything she likes just to keep her around.
If you have a habit of always agreeing with the woman that you're dating, you're probably suffering from nice guy syndrome, and she can feel it.
I see this all the time in my business.
You're getting attention from a beautiful woman, and suddenly you have no opinions of your own.
She wants to go to the ballet? Sure.
Do you want sushi? You don't like sushi, but sure.
And you're endlessly agreeable.
You're worried that if you say no and share what you really like, she'll leave and find someone else.
Why?
Because deep down, you don't believe you're fully enough.
Nothing kills attraction faster than a man with pick-me energy.
She wants to feel the security of a man who's grounded enough in his own identity to respectfully say, "actually, that's not really my thing. Why don't we try something else?"
That's confidence, and that's what she's looking for.
Trust me, she doesn't want a "yes" man.
This is what "The Nice Guy" is all about.
Agreeable, people-pleasing, overthinking and playing it SO safe with women.
It's actually been years since you trusted your masculine instincts.
I have been working with men exactly like you for years.
You don't need another book, pod, or YouTube video.
You need a real woman, the same kind you want to attract into your life, to be in your corner and guide you forward.
So stop playing nice and start being real.
With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️
I'm taking on 5 guys only for the next 90 days.
This is for the man who's done playing the Nice Guy, done agreeing with everything just to keep her around, and ready to stop choking when his 5-star queen shows up.
If you're tired of your dating life being on repeat and you're truly ready to drop the pick-me energy and attract the woman you actually want, fill out the form and let's chat. 🫶🏽
