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This Weekโs Top Dating Tips
What most guys get wrong about flirting is it doesn't look one certain way.
Flirting isn't about saying the "right" thing.
It's about being in the right energy.
There's no universal playbook.
You don't attract her by copying a line.
You attract her by the energy and intention you bring when you show up.
But here's the thing...
There are tactics that absolutely work and tactics that absolutely don't.
So single men, here's how not to flirt, and maybe a few right ways to flirt:
โ Trying to make her jealous?
Absolute 1/10. Any woman with a head on her shoulders will smell this a mile away.
โ Making sexual jokes right at the beginning?
Might seem harmless to you, but you are immediately pushing her away. 1/10.
โ Asking if she's dating other people?
Using this as a way to find out if she's interested in you shows lack of confidence. I'm going to give it a 2/10.
โ Telling a joke and then explaining your joke?
Telling a joke is great, and then explaining your joke means that you do not have a sense of humor. 2/10.
โ ๏ธ Showing off facts and using big words?
I'm going to go 5/10.
โ ๏ธ Generic compliments?
4/10.
โ ๏ธ Poking fun at her?
This is fine once you've developed that rapport, but making it constant will never work. 4/10.
โ Playing it cool and acting uninterested?
We're not in high school. We're not playing games here. This is about creating genuine connections. 1/10.
โ Assuming she's single and flirting like you mean it?
I'm going to go 10/10 on this one.
If you are in a conversation with a woman on a dating app or on a first date, make this about your connection and don't worry about whether she's dating other people or not.
It doesn't matter.
You see...
The guys who are successful with women aren't using pickup lines.
They're not trying to act cool or disinterested.
They're owning their presence.
They're showing up comfortable in their own skin.
When you're genuine, when you're present, when you make the connection about her instead of worrying if you're doing it "right"- that's when everything changes.
So if you felt like you're the kind of guy who doesn't know how to flirt, this is exactly what I help men do as a dating coach.
With love,
Coach Kavita โค๏ธ
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Women want men who show up with confident, natural energy...
But most guys are too busy copying lines and playing it cool to actually create genuine connection.
If you're tired of:
Using the wrong flirting tactics that immediately push her away
Not knowing how to create real connection with the women you actually like
Playing games and acting uninterested when you should be showing up authentically
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