๐Ÿ’Œ You're Guilty Of At Least One

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Most guys make three big mistakes when approaching women, and I guarantee you're guilty of at least one.

The first huge mistake is that you're not reading her body language. Instead, you treat every approach like a transaction.

You're so focused on getting her phone number that you ignore if she's even interested.

The second big mistake, you're stuck in a now or never mindset.

You're so caught up in the courage it took to approach that you act like it's your last chance on her.

This gives off desperate vibes and immediately turns her off.

And the third mistake is that you're simply not doing it enough.

You rarely approach women to begin with, so when you do it, the pressure's so high and it ends up feeling really awkward.

Look, if you want to get better at approaching women, you have to do it more often, the same way you would practice playing an instrument or a sport.

Start small by speaking to more women daily.

Focus on bringing a positive energy to your interactions, and release your agenda to land a phone number.

Guys, if you do this, women will start to respond to you.

Your confidence will build, your social skills will sharpen, and your approach game will level up fast.

But even when you know better, it's easy to slip back into old habits...

Here's What Happens When You Get In Your Head

Yesterday, I had a client who was spiralling.

When he joined my coaching, he told me he's 100% committed to meeting someone organically.

So we worked on his approach game first, and he saw a big shift. Women were responding well and his confidence sky rocketed.

But then he started hitting roadblocks.

Some women didn't smile back, some had boyfriends.

If approaching women IRL is your thing, this is normal.

But he got into his head. Started overthinking everything, operating from FOMO like "if I don't act now I'll miss my chance."

Sound familiar? This is mistake #2 from earlier - that now or never mindset that kills your natural confidence.

This led to awkward energy and stripped away all the joy from the experience.

During our call, he wanted a "new strategy".

"Maybe I should try being more cocky." He said.

I told him, "Finding strategies that disconnect you from who you really are will never work..."

The question isn't 'what do I need to do?'

It's 'who do I want to be?'

He wants to be himself. "Wholesome and kind."

We got to the root of it. He felt aligned again.

20 mins later, he texts our group chat: "just met a beautiful woman on her bike and landed her IG"

You see...

This is the power of mentorship. You don't have to figure it out alone.

When you get in your head, you lose sight of who you really are. You start thinking you need to be someone else to attract women.

But the truth is, authenticity always wins. When you're aligned with who you truly are, that confidence is magnetic.

With love, Coach Kavita โค๏ธ

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