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💌 It’s Not About Getting The Girl... It’s About Keeping Her
Are You Actually Ready For A Relationship? Ask Yourself These Questions First!

Greetings Gentlemen,
Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻♀️ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.
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This Week’s Top Dating Tips
One day you’re going to pop the question… 💍 But right now, you’re single.
Everyone wants to get to the next step—whether it’s a serious relationship, engagement, or marriage.
But in the rush to ‘get there,’ so many men skip the real work.
Here’s the truth…
Getting the girlfriend is easy.
Keeping her? That’s where the real work begins.
Think your insecurities will magically disappear in a relationship? News flash—they’ll be magnified!
The work you do on yourself before matters. It’s about becoming the kind of man who can build a confident, joyful, long-term relationship—not just for her, but for you too.
BONUS! 5 questions to ask yourself before you get into a relationship.
5. What gets you excited about life?
4. On a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you know yourself?
3. What does ‘commitment’ mean to you?
2. What’s your biggest fear about being in a relationship?
1. Would you want to date yourself?
Focus on becoming the kind of person you’d want to commit to. The rest will fall into place when the time is right.
But! Don’t make this one big mistake…
Just as you can’t master a sport without playing it…
You can’t improve your dating skills without engaging with women.
Here’s my philosophy when working with clients:
👉🏼 We view early stage dating as the ultimate training ground for personal growth opportunities.
👉🏼 Dating is an integral part of your personal development journey, not separate from it.
👉🏼 Rather than completely “turning off” your dating life, we simply “adjust the dial”, turning it up and down as needed 🌡️
Does this sound like you 👇🏽
Terrified of approaching women and starting conversations
Frustrated with self-sabotaging behaviors
Fed up of gaining traction, then slipping back to square one
Tired of low self-esteem and not being able to take charge
Constantly guessing where you stand with women
And simply REALLY not enjoying your dating life
How would you like to experience this instead 👇🏽

Charmingly approach women anytime anywhere with ease
Break free from self-sabotage cycles and know how to have healthier relationship habits.
Know how to move and progress a relationship forward with confidence and assurance
Skyrocket your confidence from a level 3 to a level 10 and feel DAMN GOOD about yourself
Learn to communicate effectively, be assertive, and get what you want from dating interactions
And have an EXCITING, active dating life that’s abundant with and fun!
Join Huddle Eleven Elite — my advanced dating program where you get access to me as your personal coach in an encouraging group setting.
The next session is February 25th at 8PM EST! Click the button below to apply 👇🏽
And there you have it!
If you want to become the kind of man who builds a strong, confident, and lasting relationship, DM me the word “Ready” on Instagram, and let’s get you into one of my transformative dating programs. 💍✨
– Coach Kavita ❤️

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