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💌 Do You Lack Dating Experience?
Women (only) want men who have a ton of experience... Here's the truth
The Dating Dose
January 20, 2024
"No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man."
— Heraclitus
Sawadee ka Gentlemen!
It’s Coach Kavita here 👩🏻 I’m a Love Coach for Men, and the Writer behind The Dating Dose!
I help growth-minded men (just like you) re-enter the dating world, build unshakable confidence, and find LOVE! ❤️
Each week, I’ll be here sharing the kind of expert dating advice and insights that clients pay the big bucks for 💰
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In today's dose... 💉
⭐️ The Truth About Your ‘Lack of Experience’
😍 Why A Woman Would Be Lucky To Meet You
💪🏽 Mission: New Narrative
And more!
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Is your lack of dating experience holding you back?
It's not uncommon for men to confide in me, expressing insecurities about having limited dating experience.
Today, let's shift that perspective.
A lot of men think it’s important to have tons of dating experience. But I don’t believe that’s always the case.
Sometimes, less experience can actually be better.
Yep, you heard that right. Let’s look at it through a different lens.
Sure, having dating experience can be helpful.
But for many, it can also bring unhealed baggage from past relationships, unrealistic expectations, and a totally jaded view of dating.
However, for you — the growth-minded man who's been putting in the inner work — your “lack of experience” does not have to be a setback.
Instead, it can simply be the right time for you to step into the dating world.
A chance to learn and grow on your own terms, and as the man you are today.
Who’s to say it should be any other way?
And for the women you're going to date in the future…
Well. What a lucky opportunity for them to connect with someone like you, who’s unburdened by past complexities, free, and excited for a relationship.
🙋🏻♀️ Make sure to scroll down for this week’s Man Up Mission, where I help you change the narrative and prepare to tell a new story.
Remember, your journey in the dating world is uniquely yours.
Your experiences, whether few or many, have shaped the man you are today. And the reality is, there's no other version of you out there.
So embrace your individuality, your hard work, and accomplishments; wear them proudly. Your authenticity is your greatest asset.
⭐️ 5 More Hidden Advantages ⭐️
So far, I've emphasized one main advantage of having a fresh start in dating – which is being unburdened by the complexities of past relationships…
But the positives don't stop there. There are many more hidden gems to consider. Let’s explore some of them together:
1. More Patience: Lack of experience can teach you the value of patience. You may be willing to take the time to build meaningful connections with a higher focus on quality over quantity.
2. Deeper Appreciation for Relationships: You may have a greater appreciation for the opportunity to connect with someone special. Gratitude can lay a strong foundation for lasting partnership.
3. Strong Individuality: You may have spent more time developing your own interests and hobbies, as well as a strong relationship with yourself.
4. Less Comparisons: You can appreciate your next partner for who they are, not who they're measured against.
5. Openness to Various ‘Types’: Without a dating 'type' established from past experiences, you may be more open to dating a diverse range of women. This openness can lead to discovering deeper compatibility based on character rather than superficial preferences.
In closing, understand this truth:
How you perceive your situation and choose to present it not only shapes your reality but also influences how others perceive you.
Be confident in your own story, and others will see the value in it too.
It's all in your hands.
-Coach Kavita ❤️
PS. I would love to get to know you better! Click here to tell me about yourself 🙂
Are you ready to make some moves?
IT’S TIME FOR ACTION! THIS WEEK’S MISSION IS…
‘New Narrative’
When I coach clients, we don't just chat over coffee. We roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty.
That's why every week, I bring you the Man Up Mission. Think of it as your weekly homework with a fun twist, designed to get you real results in your dating life.
📬 ‘New Narrative’ is about reshaping your dating journey from within.
This week, your mission is to turn your so-called 'lack of experience' into a strength. Over the next 7 days, complete the 3 steps below:
📝 Step 1- Write down 5 reasons (or ‘hidden gems’) as to why your 'lack of dating experience' is actually a positive thing.
🧠 Step 2- Reflect. When someone asks about your past, or expresses "concern" about your dating history, how do you want to respond?
📖 Step 3- Craft a new narrative. Create a response that you feel proud of and that reflects your new perspective .
This exercise is about owning your story and seeing your unique path as a plus, not a minus. It’s time to redefine what ‘dating experience’ means to you.
Have fun with it. You got this! 💪
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—Coach Kavita ❤️