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Greetings Gentlemen,
Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻♀️ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.
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The Magic Dating Formula
When finding a life partner, be ruthless with your standards
Your happiness, success, and overall well-being—all of it will be influenced and shaped by the person you choose to share your world with.
But how can you be ‘ruthless’ with your standards while still finding happiness on your quest to love?
It all comes down to understanding the difference between standards and expectations.
People often confuse the two.
Let me break it down 👇🏽
Standards are about your values, the things that truly matter to you and your vision for the future.
Compromising here is rarely an option. Keep those standards high AF!
But… if you want to enjoy dating and find real love—you need to lower your expectations.
And lowering your expectations isn’t a bad thing…
Once your standards are set and aligned with your values, lowering expectations just means letting go of rigid ideas of how things should happen or how someone should act.
It’s about embracing the unexpected, staying open to surprises, and appreciating what someone genuinely brings to the table 💖
Here’s the formula:
High Standards + Low Expectations = DATING MAGIC
Take a moment to reflect on what your current standards are.
Are they based on your true values and aligned with who are today, or are they mixed up with expectations of how things should be?
This week, focus on where you can let go of rigid expectations and trust the flow of dating.
Is it time to take charge of your dating life? Are you…
Terrified of approaching women and starting conversations
Frustrated with self-sabotaging behaviours
Fed up with gaining traction, then slipping back to square one
Tired of low self-esteem and not being able to take charge
Constantly guessing where you stand with women
And simply REALLY not enjoying your dating life
How would you like to experience this instead 👇🏽
Charmingly approach women anytime anywhere with ease
Break free from self-sabotage cycles and know how to have healthier relationship habits
Know how to move and progress a relationship forward with confidence and assurance
Skyrocket your confidence from a level 3 to a level 10 and feel DAMN GOOD about yourself
Learn to communicate effectively, be assertive, and get what you want from dating interactions
And have an EXCITING, active dating life that’s abundant and fun!
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—Coach Kavita ❤️
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