Adventure 1 - Find your tribe

Take a moment to reflect on your hobbies or any activities that you enjoy. Cultural tours, coffee crawls, cooking classes, or even magic tricks (Shoutout to Phil Dunphy!) — are all gateways to meet like-minded people. You’ll be surprised to find just how many local communities are already gathering around these types of interests, waiting for you to join.

Actionable tip: Use social media as an easy starting point for new friendships. Instagram, LinkedIn, and Facebook are filled with local groups that promote public events centered around fun and unique interests. See a post about a community nature hike? A quick and simple message like, "Hey, I just saw your nature hike event. How do I join the next one?" can open doors you didn't even know were there.

Adventure 2 - Score friendships on the field

Playing sports brings people together in a nostalgic way. Whether it's the shared joy of the winning goal or some healthy competition, there's just something about being on a team that creates lasting bonds well after the game is over. Options are endless, from softball to soccer and pickleball to basketball.

Actionable tip: Explore opportunities to join your local sports team. Whether you're super athletic or just looking to have some fun, there's always a place for you on the field.

Adventure 3 - Join a men’s group

Imagine getting together with 8 or so men who share similar life experiences, and being able to open up about various topics and whatever life throws at you, all in a safe space.

Joining a men’s group (or ‘circle’) should be at the top of your to-do list if genuine connection and support are something you yearn for. These groups are more than casual gatherings; they're brotherhoods committed to open, judgment-free dialogue that celebrates your success.

Another way of participating in something like this can be based on specific interests, like a book club. Look for a local group that meets in your city or join one online that hosts weekly Zoom calls.

You’ll find men’s circles around all kinds of topics:

✅ Divorced men
✅ Single dads
✅ Spiritual men
✅ Wealth building
✅ Mindful living
✅ Self-development
✅ Professional masterminds
✅ Book clubs

Once you start your search, you’re sure to come across more treasures.

Actionable tip: Do a quick #MensGroup search on Instagram and you'll find a ton of like-minded people to connect with. The #ManKindProject is a popular option for those interested in personal growth.

Don't just attend the meetings, actively participate in them. Share your thoughts, ask questions, and be genuinely interested in what others have to say.

Adventure 4 - Grab your red solo cups🥤

If you haven’t thrown a party in years, now would be the perfect time. We’re not suggesting a rager (unless that’s your thing, of course), but more of an upbeat gathering with good food, drinks, games and great conversation. This type of invitation can be a welcoming way to rekindle old friendships.

Actionable tip: A day time function like a BBQ is always a crowd pleaser. People can pop in and out without it feeling too formal. Be sure to invite all those old friends and acquaintances that you haven’t seen in a long time — let them bring their spouses and even kids if they’d like!

Adventure 5 - Manifest a weekly boys’ night

Manifesting is a powerful tool for making your desires a reality, even a weekly boys’ night. Visualize or journal your ideal scenario of getting the troops together. Maybe it's a poker, trivia, or game night. Picture the end of the evening, how you might feel, and the connections made. Really put yourself in the moment.

Remember, this weekly night of fun is for the friendships you're about to have! Create space for it now, as if it’s already happening, and watch it manifest before your eyes.

Actionable tip: The next time you’re out and you feel like you’re making a new connection, take the first step and casually say, 'Hey, I host a weekly poker night, you should come'. Repeat this process and see where it takes you!

[BONUS] For the Bold and Adventurous 🏔️

Itching to take a step beyond your comfort zone? Go for it with an open mic night, improv class, karaoke, or salsa dancing.

Actionable tip: Choose one (or more!) of these activities, and find a local venue that hosts these events. Don't overthink it. Take a deep breath and just show up, the rest will take care of itself. Remember, everyone is there to have fun too!

💡 PRO TIP:

Whether it's from your men’s group or your sports team, the way to make the kind of friends you can call on a Friday night is to start inviting them to do something. The more you invest in getting to know people, the more likely you'll turn club acquaintances and teammates into genuine friends.

When you step out of your comfort zone and actively seek connections, you present yourself as a man open to growth, adventure, and community!

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