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💌 Melt Away Your Approach Anxiety
Meet women with the 'First Pitch' method, 14 effective openers, Best transition one-liner
The Dating Dose
April 20, 2024
Pick-Up Lines Don’t Work Anymore
But approaching a woman you find attractive? Sexier than ever.
There’s just one huge problem that’s keeps you frozen in place…
“What on earth do I say??”
In today’s dose, I’m revealing my step-by-step method to finally cure your fear of Approach Anxiety.
Greetings Gentlemen,
Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻♀️ Love Coach for Men.
Each week, I share the kind of expert dating advice that clients pay the big bucks for 💰
Today’s Dating Upgrade:
👋🏼 The First Pitch Method
🗣️ 14 Effective Openers
💪🏽 Tiny interactions
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It Doesn’t Matter What You Say
When it comes to approaching women, what you say matters less, as long as you can grab her attention.
This 7 second clip is the perfect example 👇🏽 (Watch, don’t skip it!)
Even a (somewhat) cheesy one-liner can work, as long as you’re a good guy and can deliver the goods afterward.
I’m handing over the keys 🔑 to my First Pitch Method.
I love this method because it’s simple and can be used anywhere; at an event, standing in line, or even in the cereal aisle 🛒
Coach K’s First Pitch Method 👋🏼
Step 1: Say something random or silly that’s enough to get her attention on you.
“You know… this place is supposedly haunted.”
"You know, I'm the one responsible for (the weather today)”
“You know, I’m the reason they invented the (cappuccino)”
“You know, I’m the inventor of the (wine glass)”
Step 2: She responds with either a playful “Oh really?” or a curious “Huh?”.
This is your cue…
Step 3: Keeping the mood light, tell her the truth and introduce yourself.
“I don’t actually know, but I didn’t know how else to break the ice. I’m John by the way. What’s your name?”
And that’s it! Watch me break it down on video here.
Look, women have good intuition—and chances are, she's heard it all before. Just be real, you don’t have to keep up the charade.
Step 4: The only transition you’ll ever need
If the vibes are good, end off with a casual:
“So, how do we keep in touch after this?”
Let’s get one thing perfectly clear…
You want a woman in your life. That’s why you’re reading this right now.
And not because you’re forced to, but because it’s what you desire…
You know it’s good for you.
So here’s what I’m willing to do. I’m willing to help you for 30 days straight for only $1 per day.
I’ve never done something like this before. It’s called my 30/30 Formula and it’s designed to get you more attention from women in 30 days than you did all of last year combined.
It starts on May 1st.
There’s only a few spaces left. And yes, it’s really only $1 a day. No catch. No nothing. Just real help 🤝🏽
More convo openers for ya 🗣️
At a Wedding, party or event:
“This is my first time at one of these events. How about you?"
“I don’t think I’ve met you yet, I’m John, what’s your name?”
“Hey, saw you from over there and thought I’d come say Hi. I’m John by the way”.
Standing in line:
“Oh nice, what did you get?” (buying wine for example)
"It's so [busy/quiet] in here today, isn't it?”
At the park:
"I couldn't help but notice your pup 🐶 from across the park, boy or girl?”
Bar / Restaurant:
“Can I make a suggestion?”
“The [fries] here are the best”
(Referring to her cocktail) “That looks good, what is it?”
Playfully: “I'm debating between [two items on the menu], what do you think I should get?"
Playfully: "Can you order me for me? I can't decide what to get today.”
Someone on her phone:
Jokingly: “So, what’s trending on TikTok?”
Jokingly: “Hey… looking up conversation starters?”
Starbucks:
Try my popular Starbucks hack this weekend.
Play to win 🏆 If you go in with expectations… you’ve already lost.
When you go up to a woman, please be sincere and respectful—and release your expectations. The goal is not to have an agenda other than to connect, have fun, and make her day better.
PSA: You’ll fumble 80% of the time
You know Joey from Friends and his iconic 'How you doin?' pick up line.
It got him more eye rolls than dates. But it doesn’t matter…
Because if you fumble 80% of the time, it means 20% of the time, it will work.
That’s one phone number, date or Instagram exchange for every 5 attempts.
Pretty groovy if you ask me.
In the dating game, every fumble is a step forward. You get better at what you practice. So stop missing out on opportunities to meet women and step up to the plate.
And if you need a little extra guidance? Join men just like you in my 30/30 program. It starts soon.
Your weekly homework assignment to help you do better in your dating life.
📬 This week your mission is to take baby steps and engage in tiny, daily interactions with women.
Could be the barista, cashier, someone at the gym, park, or even on your commute.
Here are some simple questions and comments:
How’s your day going so far?
Seems like a busy day today, how's it been going for you?
You look like you're in good spirits! Is it a special day or just feeling great?
Thanks, have a great day!
You’re really great at your job.
You’re dog is so cute!
Cool phone case 😊
That's a great book 💯
Yum, that's my favorite sushi roll, enjoy!
Have fun! You got this! 💪🏽
If you’re ready for a love life, click here to tell me about yourself
—Coach Kavita ❤️
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