Greetings Gentlemen,

Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻‍♀️ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.

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Each week, I answer the most pressing dating questions from single men in our Dashing Date community.

This week, it’s about getting mixed signals… 👇🏽

Q: “What happens when she’s ‘all over you’ at first, and then switches to “Oh, we’re just friends”?

Here’s my ANSWER:

Mixed signals are a sign of confusion, uncertainty, or even a lack of respect.

But before you jump to conclusions, it’s important to take ownership of the situation.

As a single man out in the dating world, you gotta own your part.

Put yourself in the driver’s seat, focusing on what you can control rather than blaming others, which will likely land you in the same situation down the road.

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In dating, remember: There are 2 people involved!

(And Hint: you're one of them! )

You have a role in shaping the experience that you see playing out.

In a situation like this, where you’re getting mixed signals from women again and again…

I’d encourage you to reflect on whether you've been clear about your standards and expectations from the beginning👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽

Here are some important questions to reflect on:

• How are you complicit in creating the conditions you say you don’t want?

• When was the last time you thought about and got clear on your standards during early-stage dating?

• Do you communicate those standards when you start dating someone?

• What signals are you giving off? How can you be certain?

• Do you speak up when you start noticing mixed signals?

• Do you have the techniques, skills, and confidence to communicate effectively and clearly?

The reality is, people will treat you the way you allow them to treat you.

Take charge of your dating life by understanding your own patterns and then setting the tone early and ensuring your actions align with your expectations.👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽

Is it time to take charge of your dating life? Are you…

• Terrified of approaching women and starting conversations

• Frustrated with self-sabotaging behaviours

• Fed up with gaining traction, then slipping back to square one

• Tired of low self-esteem and not being able to take charge

• Constantly guessing where you stand with women

• And simply REALLY not enjoying your dating life

How would you like to experience this instead 👇🏽

• Charmingly approach women anytime anywhere with ease

• Break free from self-sabotage cycles and know how to have healthier relationship habits

• Know how to move and progress a relationship forward with confidence and assurance

• Skyrocket your confidence from a level 3 to a level 10 and feel DAMN GOOD about yourself

• Learn to communicate effectively, be assertive, and get what you want from dating interactions

• And have an EXCITING, active dating life that’s abundant and fun!

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And there you have it! Real questions from real men, just like you.

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—Coach Kavita ❤️