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Most single guys think that getting a girlfriend will solve all their confidence problems.
That once you have someone, all the anxiety disappears.
The loneliness is going to go away, and you're going to feel confident and secure.
But here's the thing.
Getting a girlfriend won't erase your insecurities.
If you don't know how to be in a relationship, getting one creates a ton of new problems.
I had this one guy who was about to sign up for my coaching program, but right before he signed the papers, he ended up meeting someone.
And then he messages me like,
"Oh, I met someone. I don't need to sign up for coaching."
I know better than to argue with someone who thinks they've cracked the code after one date.
So I just smile and nod.
He'll be back.
And of course, two weeks later, he's texting me in panic mode.
"She's pulling away. I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm losing her."
Here's what happened.
The problem was, he never learned how to actually be and show up in the relationship.
He managed to get a girl, but he couldn't keep her interested.
All those insecurities from two weeks ago?
They didn't disappear.
They just showed up in brand new ways.
If you don't fix them first, they'll follow you into the relationship and push her away even faster.
So guys, listen.
Getting a girlfriend doesn't fix your problems.
Becoming the kind of man women want to stay with does.
When I work with men, we focus on building confidence, social skills, and real emotional strength.
That way, we don't just attract women.
We attract the right women.
With love,
Coach Kavita โค๏ธ
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Women want men who show up confidently in relationships...
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