This Week’s Top Dating Tips

🎞️ Never do this on a first date (link)
🎞️ This is why she loses interest so fast… (link)
🎞️ Can you hold a decent conversation? (link)

The last few weeks have been a whirlwind 🌀

And... it's just the beginning!

My superpower?

Gratitude + genuine desire to stretch my capacity for more...

Had an epiphany recently.

We say "we want we want we want."

But when we get a taste of it...

we complain, shrink and refuse to step into the level required to receive that level of abundance.

And so, it gets taken away.

It's the ultimate form of self sabotage…

Here's what I mean…

I knew it was going to be crazy.

I was hosting a brand new 30 day dating program for all new clients.

I was prepping for the launch of a new podcast in NYC.

We put our house up for rent.

Was running in and out of doctor appts.

All the while wildly committed to my private clients, The Huddle (my group coaching brotherhood), onboarding new team members, filming content and booking travel.

It was CHAOS!!!

Right at the start of the month, I caught myself feeling overwhelmed and complaining.

And I immediately switched the flip.

These are all things I used to dream about!

If I can't handle it, nothing will work out. I'll self sabotage and send myself several steps back.

So instead I showed immense gratitude.

And I said out loud, "I'm here for all of it and desire to stretch my capacity."

What I was really saying is that I am ready to receive this level of abundance in my life.

And so I did.

What's followed is a dream.

Multiple new clients in The Huddle.

House rented to exceptional tenants.

Business collabs and opportunities pouring in.

An incredible team that will take us all to the moon.

(All the while sticking to my health and fitness goals, strengthening my relationship with my partner Brad, seeing friends and family, even hosted a kick ass dinner party!)

In 30 days, I had unlocked an entirely new personal level.

What the next 5 weeks look like:

- Heading to Nashville and San Diego for podcasts and working with world class people.

- A branding workshop on a yacht.

- Packing up the house.

- Celebrating my birthday and then leaving for a retreat in Ibiza.

This is abundance…

But it doesn't just come because you "want it..."

You have to be ready for it.

You have to become it.

And love is no different.

You can say you want the relationship, the woman, the dating life...

But when it requires you to stretch into a new version of yourself, that's where the self sabotage can begin.

This is what my clients are experiencing in their dating lives.

No more self sabotage.

No more shrinking.

They're stepping into attraction and desire like never before.

With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️

P.S. If you're ready to release the old patterns and stories and start living your life, reply with MENTOR and let's talk.