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💌 Why She Loses Interest

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The biggest mistake men make is this.
As soon as a woman starts showing interest in you, as soon as she likes you, you completely change the way you show up.
You start oversharing. Overdoing. Over-investing.
And suddenly the very reasons she was drawn to you in the first place have done a disappearing act.
And you're confused.
After all, didn't you do everything right?
And you're so tired of winding up here because everyone around you is waiting for you to meet someone because you're such a "great catch."
Here's what your friends and family don't know though.
They don't know how you're actually showing up with these women.
They don't see the man who abandons himself the moment a real chance for love is in front of him.
What's Really Going On
I was just talking to a client.
He's talking to this girl, he really likes her, and he's slipping into old patterns.
He said: "Yeah but she's really liking spending time with me. She wants to call me more."
And I reminded him that the reason she was drawn to him in the first place was his energy.
The way he was showing up.
His authentic vibe.
So what happens when you start changing the way you show up in response to the way she's showing up?
She loses interest.
Because you're not the same guy she was originally attracted to.
Don't Forget
The version of you she fell for? Keep being him.
Over-investing too soon doesn't show you care.
It shows you're anxious.
And There You Have It
Stay grounded.
Stay consistent.
Trust that who you are is enough.
With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️
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