💌 If She Smiled At You...And You Didn't Walk Over

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When a girl smiles at you, if you don't walk over, you think you're lacking game, but I'm going to tell you what's really going on.

You're lacking self-trust.

Most high-value men think they're being respectful when they hesitate, but what it actually signals to her is that you are unsure of yourself, and women don't lean into that kind of energy.

You see...

When she gives you that smile and you freeze up, you start telling yourself all these stories.

"Maybe she's just being polite."

"I don't want to bother her."

"What if I say the wrong thing?"

But that's not respect - that's fear.

You're not trusting yourself to handle whatever happens when you walk over there.

You're not trusting that you can have a normal conversation without making it weird.

And here's the thing - she can feel that hesitation.

Women pick up on that uncertain energy immediately.

When you second-guess yourself after she's given you a clear signal, you're showing her that you don't believe in yourself.

That's not attractive.

Charles was terrified to approach women his whole entire life.

In less than 3 weeks he learned how to walk right up to any woman "out of his league", make her blush, and leave her grinning while she's punching her number into his phone.

You don't "work on confidence". You build it with the right moves.

What changed for Charles wasn't that he suddenly got "better lines" or learned some magic pickup technique.

He learned to trust himself in those moments.

He stopped overthinking every single interaction and started acting on the signals he was getting.

When a woman smiled at him, instead of standing there analyzing whether it was "real" or not, he trusted himself enough to find out.

That's what self-trust looks like. It's not about being perfect.

It's about trusting that you can handle whatever happens when you take action.

Most guys think they need to figure everything out before they approach.

But you can't figure it out from across the room. You find out by walking over there.

When you trust yourself, you're not worried about having the perfect thing to say.

You're not panicking about awkward silences.

You know you can handle the conversation as it happens.

That confidence? That's what she's responding to when you finally do approach.

Remember: Next time she smiles at you, stop overthinking it.

Trust yourself enough to walk over and find out what happens.

With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️

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