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💌 Working On Yourself Isn't What You Think It Is...

t💕❤️ Happy Valentine's Day to my favourite guys ❤️💕
Whether you're single, dating, or somewhere in between, today is a reminder that love starts with YOU ❤️
This Week’s Top Dating Tips
If I hear one more guy say "I have to work on myself" I'm going to lose my mind.
This is the biggest lie men tell themselves about dating.
Cutting out 50% of the human population isn't "working on yourself."
It's a cop-out rooted in fear, not feeling good enough, and overthinking.
Who convinced you that taking a break from dating would make you better at dating?
That's like trying to get better at swimming by playing golf.
You see... isolating yourself from love and dating will eventually lead to something I call intimacy erosion.
It happens when you've gone so long without dating, you forget how to form a real connection.
And here's the truth.
A woman will only commit to a man she can connect with emotionally.
She doesn't care how much you worked on your abs or bank account if you're blocked and can't form a deep connection.
By the time most men realize they're blocked, it's too late.
So let me be clear about something.
Your career, your health and your love life are EQUALLY important.
You need to be working on them simultaneously.
Not one at a time. Not "I'll get to dating when I'm ready." All of them. Together.
But let me tell you... working towards your life goals WITH an amazing supportive and loving woman by your side?
That's the UNLOCK.
I know this because Brad and I are living our dream.
We're building a thriving business, prioritizing our health, and traveling the world together. Doing it side-by-side accelerated everything.
Life is meant to be shared with someone. Nothing is more natural.
And guys, here's what I need you to understand.
Feminine, independent, down to earth women aren't looking for the man who's done it all.
She's looking for someone ambitious who's on the right path.
Someone she can trust, grow with and build a life alongside of.
Yes these women are out there. And she'd love to meet a man like you.
But you're plugged into the wrong frequency. So you don't see them. And they don't see you.
Stop waiting until you're "ready." Stop hiding behind self-improvement as an excuse to avoid love.
The work and the love happen at the same time.
That's how it's always been.
With love, Coach Kavita ❤️
🔥 THE HUDDLE IS OPENING 5 SPOTS 🔥
I'm opening up 5 seats for a select group of single men ready to stop avoiding love and finally build the dating life they deserve.
Entry begins March 1st.
If you've been sitting on the sidelines telling yourself you're "not ready," this is your sign.
The Huddle is my advanced dating mentorship where men learn how to connect with women authentically, build real confidence, and create a love life that matches the rest of their ambition.
Only 5 spots. That's it.
If you're interested, reply to this email with "HUDDLE" and I'll send you the details.
Don't wait until you're "ready." Get ready by doing.
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