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If women are always telling you that they didn't feel a spark, I'm going to tell you what she's really thinking.

One, you're either trying way too hard, or two, you're not being your real self on dates.

Both of these are rooted in the same thing: insecurity.

But the moment you stop performing and start being more grounded and more present, everything changes.

You see...

Dating gets a whole lot easier when you stop trying to be anything other than yourself.

The hard part?

Most men don't actually know how to be themselves when the stakes feel high.

Think about it.

When you're on a date with someone you really like, what happens?

You start overthinking every word.

You're analyzing her reactions.

You're performing instead of just being.

And she can feel it.

That nervous energy?

That trying-too-hard vibe?

That's what kills the spark before it even has a chance to ignite.

Here's what I know about spark:

It's not something you create through perfect conversation or flawless execution.

It's something that happens when two people are being authentically themselves in each other's presence.

When you're grounded in who you are, when you're present in the moment, when you're not desperately trying to impress her...

That's when she feels safe to be herself too.

And that's when spark happens.

Most guys think spark is about chemistry or compatibility.

But really? It's about authenticity.

It's about showing up as the real you instead of the version you think she wants to see.

When you're trying to be perfect, you're not being human.

When you're performing, you're not being present.

And when you're not being yourself, there's no real connection to be made.

The woman sitting across from you?

She's not looking for perfect.

She's looking for real.

She wants to see the man who's comfortable in his own skin.

Who doesn't need her validation to feel good about himself.

Who can laugh at his own mistakes and own his flaws without falling apart.

That confidence?

That authenticity?

That's what creates spark.

So the next time you're on a date, instead of trying to impress her, try connecting with her.

Instead of performing, try being present.

Instead of hiding your imperfections, try owning them.

Because the spark she's looking for?

It's not in your performance.

It's in you.

With love,
Coach Kavita ❤️

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