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💌 You Belong In The Room
You don't owe everyone an explanation for who you are or how you got here

Hey lovelies! ❤️
Today's Love Note is coming to you from Cape Town, and I want to talk about something I see come up often, especially when it comes to dating.
The need to over-explain yourself.
Your past relationships, your lack of dating experience, your career, or why you're at a certain place in life.
Sometimes, without even realizing it, we feel the need to justify who we are to people we barely know.
I'm sharing a personal story from earlier in my career, along with some thoughts on quiet confidence, owning your story, and why you don't need to explain your way into belonging.
So wherever this Love Note finds you today, I hope it reminds you that you don't have to explain why you belong. ❤️
Sending love,
Coach K ❤️
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