Greetings Gentlemen,

Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻‍♀️ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.

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Is your lack of dating experience really your secret advantage?

A lot of men are embarrassed by their lack of experience with women, and on the dating scene…

But here’s the truth…

Sometimes, less experience can actually be better.

Yep, you heard that right. Let’s look at it through a different lens.

Sure, having dating experience can be helpful.

But for many, it can also bring unhealed stories from past relationships, unrealistic expectations, and a totally jaded view of dating.

However, for you — the growth-minded man who's been putting in the inner work — your “lack of experience” does not have to be a setback.

Instead, it can simply be the right time for you to step into the dating world.

A chance to learn and grow on your own terms, and as the man you are today.

Who’s to say it should be any other way?

And for the women you're going to date in the future…

Well, what a lucky opportunity for them to connect with someone like you, who’s unburdened by past complexities, free, and excited for a relationship.

Does this sound like you 👇🏽

• Terrified of approaching women and starting conversations

• Frustrated with self-sabotaging behaviors

• Fed up with gaining traction, then slipping back to square one

• Tired of low self-esteem and not being able to take charge

• Constantly guessing where you stand with women

• And simply REALLY not enjoying your dating life

How would you like to experience this instead 👇🏽

• Charmingly approach women anytime anywhere with ease

• Break free from self-sabotage cycles and know how to have healthier relationship habits

• Know how to move and progress a relationship forward with confidence and assurance

• Skyrocket your confidence from a level 3 to a level 10 and feel DAMN GOOD about yourself

• Learn to communicate effectively, be assertive, and get what you want from dating interactions

• And have an EXCITING, active dating life that’s abundant and fun!

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🙋🏻‍♀️ Make sure to scroll down for this week’s Man Up Mission, where I help you change the narrative and prepare to tell a new story.

⭐️ 5 More Hidden Advantages ⭐️

So far, I've emphasized one main advantage of having a fresh start in dating – which is being unburdened by the complexities of past relationships…

But the positives don't stop there. There are many more hidden gems to consider. Let’s explore some of them together:

1. More Patience: Lack of experience can teach you the value of patience. You may be willing to take the time to build meaningful connections with a higher focus on quality over quantity.

2. Deeper Appreciation for Relationships: You may have a greater appreciation for the opportunity to connect with someone special. Gratitude can lay a strong foundation for lasting partnership.

3. Strong Individuality: You may have spent more time developing your own interests and hobbies, as well as a strong relationship with yourself.

4. Less Comparisons: You can appreciate your next partner for who they are, not who they're measured against.

5. Openness to Various ‘Types’: Without a dating 'type' established from past experiences, you may be more open to dating a diverse range of women. This openness can lead to discovering deeper compatibility based on character rather than superficial preferences.

In closing, understand this truth:

How you perceive your situation and choose to present it not only shapes your reality but also influences how others perceive you.

Be confident in your own story, and others will see the value in it too.

It's all in your hands.

📬 This week your mission is to turn your so-called 'lack of experience' into a strength. Over the next 7 days, complete the 3 steps below:

📝 Step 1- Write down 5 reasons (or ‘hidden gems’) as to why your 'lack of dating experience' is actually a positive thing.

🧠 Step 2- Reflect. When someone asks about your past, or expresses "concern" about your dating history, how do you want to respond?

📖 Step 3- Craft a new narrative. Create a response that you feel proud of and that reflects your new perspective.

This exercise is about owning your story and seeing your unique path as a plus, not a minus. It’s time to redefine what ‘dating experience’ means to you.

Have fun with it. You got this! 💪