- The Dating Dose
- Posts
- 💌 5 Surprising Habits To Fix Your Dating Life
💌 5 Surprising Habits To Fix Your Dating Life
Add these to your new years resolutions
The Dating Dose
December 09, 2023
"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten."
— Tony Robbins
Greetings Gentlemen!
It’s Coach Kavita here 👩🏻 I’m a Love Coach for Men, and the Writer behind The Dating Dose!
I help growth-minded men (just like you) re-enter the dating world, build unshakable confidence, and find LOVE! ❤️
Each week, I’ll be here sharing the kind of expert dating advice and insights that clients pay the big bucks for 💰
In today's dose... 💉
🔥 5 Surprising Habits To Fix Your Dating Life
😮💨 Dealing With Rejection
🗣️ What To Say On Your Dating Profile
💪🏽 Mission: Is She Out of Your League?
And more!
AWESOME STUFF I FOUND FOR YOU THIS WEEK…
The Best On The Net
DATING DEEP DIVE
5 Surprising Habits To Fix Up Your Dating Life
Meet Bill 👨🏻
In the workplace, he's the picture of success. Conference calls before noon, closing deals by dinner time. He's got it all figured out professionally and loves what he does.
But when the day ends, he comes home to an empty apartment.
That's when it hits him the most - Bill might be acing the work game, but his love life? Not so much.
Have you ever felt like Bill?
Here's a thought: What if you could apply the same strategies you've mastered in your work life to the dating world?
After coaching hundreds of professional men, it turns out that finding your dream job isn’t that different from finding your dream girl.
Today I’m sharing 5 habits you’re familiar with at work, and showing you exactly how to start applying them to dating 👇
Career Habit 1 - Rejection is part of the game ❤️🩹
In your work life:
Rejection is simply part of the game. Whether it's an interview that didn't pan out or a deal that fell through at the last minute, you know that these setbacks don’t define your worth or your career potential.
In the dating world:
The same principle applies. Not every date you go on will be a home run, and not everyone you like will feel the same way. But remember, these moments do not define your worth or dating potential.
Rejection is part of the journey. Learn to expect it, even to appreciate it. After all, dating isn't about finding any match, but the right match, someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.
View each dating encounter as a learning opportunity, a chance to better understand what you want in a partner and what you can bring to the table.
The sooner you fall in love with the process, the sooner you'll fall in love - period.
Career Habit 2 - Network 🤝
In your work life:
It's often said, "Your network is your net worth". Making new connections opens doors and increases your chances of landing a great job opportunity.
In the dating world:
It's no different. Putting yourself ‘out there’ is a must.
Instead of waiting for love to come a-knockin’, take the reins. Initiate plans and get involved in group activities. Start embracing a 'yes-person' mentality.
Be vocal about your availability — tell your friends, "Invite me out, I'll be there!". Attend singles events, go to meet ups, try out new activities.
It's tempting to find excuses after a long day at work, but finding the right partner deserves your time and energy, just as much as your career does.
Career Habit 3 - Keep your resume up to date 📝
In your work life:
Your resume is your golden ticket to getting noticed. It's the first impression employers get of you before inviting you in for an interview.
In the dating world:
Your online dating profile holds the same weight. It's what women assess first before deciding to initiate a conversation or go on a date.
You might think you have a decent profile, but if you haven’t updated it in months (or years), you’ve already lost. Here’s the secret…
Just like your resume reflects your most recent work experiences, your dating profile should reflect your most recent life experiences.
For example, talk about a country you visited, a book you just finished, or a new hobby you’ve picked up.
These small updates provide fresh and unique content that not only pique a woman’s interest but also sets you apart from other men.
PS: I’ll be teaching my Dynamic Dating Profile Method at my upcoming dating masterclass: ‘Becoming Mr. Right’ taking place next week.
Career Habit 4 - Know your strengths and weaknesses 💪
In your work life:
Self-awareness is key. Understanding your strengths and weaknesses is fundamental to your professional growth. It helps you make informed decisions like what projects to take on and which skills to develop.
In the dating world:
Self-awareness is equally important, and guess what, it's attractive and sexy as hell!
Getting clear on your strengths and weaknesses will significantly enhance your dating journey. It sheds light on what type of partner you'd mesh with and highlights the aspects that you need to work on or heal from.
Take a moment to reflect on the areas you feel confident about and those that could use some improving.
What aspects of being in a relationship are you really good at?
Where could you do better?
How have these traits played out in your past relationships?
Getting real about this can be tough to face at first, but it's a necessary step in your dating journey — for yourself and your future partner.
Career Habit 5 - Improve your skills 🧠
In your work life:
Pursuing a new career or position often means polishing existing skills or having to learn new ones to meet the requirements of the role you’re after.
In the dating world:
The same idea applies. You should aim to be on the same level as the type of woman you want to date.
For instance, if you aspire to meet someone healthy, successful and attractive, it's likely she’s looking for someone with similar attributes.
Now's the perfect time to work on yourself. Start a new hobby, travel to exciting places, pick up a new language, get in shape. Think about what you're seeking in a partner, and make an effort to embody those qualities.
And there we have it.
Look, the point is, you aren't going to meet someone by sitting on your couch and hitting 'continue watching' on Netflix.
You need to take action.
And yes, it takes confidence, courage, and persistence to go after what you truly desire, be it a dream job or dream girl.
It may also take time, so be patient. With consistent effort, you’ll get there, I promise.
Ready to take action? Decide which of these 5 habits will make it to your 2024 New Years resolutions. Oh! And Sign up for this, you won’t regret it.
IT’S THE PERFECT TIME FOR…
My upcoming dating masterclass, ‘Becoming Mr. Right’.
It’s the last masterclass I’ll be doing this year, and I’m hosting it on Zoom on Dec 12 + 13. If you can’t attend live, no worries! Because it’s being recorded and you get lifetime access.
If you join me, you’ll learn:
🔥How to build unshakable confidence.
🔥How to triple your matches on dating apps (even if you don't look like Brad Pitt).
🔥How to receive messages from the type of women you’re seeking.
🔥How to confidently approach women, feel at ease and score.
And because it's the last one, I decided to do something a lil special…
I’m providing you with $650 worth of value for just 44 bucks!
Consider it an early Christmas present 😄 But hurry, I only have a few spaces left.
This masterclass will help you embody the core principles I’ve shared here in today’s Dating Dose:
Taking action
Improving your skills
Understanding your strengths
(And having a great dating profile!)
IT’S TIME FOR ACTION! THIS WEEK’S MISSION IS…
‘Aim High’
When I coach clients, we don't just chat over coffee. We roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty.
That's why every week, I bring you the Man Up Mission. Think of it as your weekly homework with a fun twist, designed to get you real results in your dating life.
📬 ‘Aim High’ is all about setting the bar high and creating momentum.
📝 Just like you wouldn’t shy away from going for a promotion that seems just out of your reach, your mission is to interact with a woman you perceive to be jusssst out of your league - in the next 7 days!
And good news…
This isn't one-size-fits-all. Stepping out of your comfort zone can look different for everyone, so here are some examples of what 'interacting' might look like, based on where you’re at in your dating journey:
🤭 For the cautious dater: Making eye contact and smiling.
😉 For the curious dater: Striking up a casual conversation. This could be as simple as asking about her day or making a comment about your surroundings.
😎 For the courageous dater: Any/all of the above, paired with asking for her number, exchanging social media, or even suggesting a meet up!
This isn’t about securing a date, it’s about taking action. You got this! 💪
I WANNA HEAR FROM YOU! 👂🏽
What'd you think of today's dose? |
That's all for now!
If you’re ready for more in your love life, text me “I want to change!” at (647) 372-5414, and I’ll personally respond 🫡
—Coach Kavita ❤️