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💌 How To Meet Someone By Christmas
Tips for going out alone, Where to meet women in December, Jolly date ideas, Relieve social anxiety
The Dating Dose
December 02, 2023
"Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy. And keep choosing it every day.”
— Henri J.M Nouwen
Greetings Gentlemen!
It’s Coach Kavita here 👩🏻 I’m a Love Coach for Men, and the Writer behind The Dating Dose!
I help growth-minded men (just like you) re-enter the dating world, build unshakable confidence, and find LOVE! ❤️
Each week, I’ll be here sharing the kind of expert dating advice and insights that clients pay the big bucks for 💰
In today's dose... 💉
🪩 Where to Meet Women During the Holidays
🫣 Your Unjolly Excuses (+ My Jolly Solutions!)
😮💨 Relieve Social Anxiety
💪🏽 Man Up Mission “Merry Mingle”
⚡️ Quick Tips
And more!
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Question: How To Meet Someone by Christmas? 🎄
Answer: Stand under the mistletoe!
Think I’m kidding…?
Actually, I’m serious. But, metaphorically speaking, of course.
This holiday season, when you’re lying on your couch, I want you to think to yourself…
“What would it look like if I chose to ‘stand under the mistletoe’ instead right now?”
It's a powerful visual, reminding you that it all starts with you – your intention, your mindset, your choices.
This December, it’s your time to be present, be visible, and take full advantage of the unique energy that comes with this time of year…
Where parties, events, and gatherings have the potential to fill up the calendar all month long.
Plus everyone is in jolly spirits!
As someone diving back into dating, this is prime time for you. I’m talkin’ golden opportunity.
And maybe this reminder is all you needed.
But as your dating coach, I’m always thinking ahead.
So, I’m about to unwrap 3 “unjolly excuses” that might be coming up for you to make sure you don’t miss out on meeting women this month👇🏽
🫣 Unjolly Excuse 1 - “But I don’t know where to go”
🎄 Jolly Solution: Start by researching Christmas, holiday or new years events that you can buy tickets to. (Some might even be free)
Try googling “Christmas parties near me”, a bunch of options will instantly pop up (like magic! ✨)
Use platforms like Eventbrite, Facebook, Instagram and Meetup to discover tons of exciting happenings locally.
Charity events, volunteering opportunities, Christmas markets🎅🏻, singles parties, speed dating events, wine tastings🍷 , casino nights 🎰 and community gatherings are all great examples of what you might find.
🫣 Unjolly Excuse 2 - "But I have no one to go with”
🎄 Jolly Solution: I get that you’re tempted to choose events based on when a friend is willing to join you, but trust me, try giving it a shot solo (at least once).
Going out on your own can be a powerful experience. It allows you to engage on your own terms, move at your own pace, and will push you to meet and interact with women - which is the whole point.
Believe me when I say, so much growth can come from making a courageous move like this, and you will be proud of yourself for doing it.
Plus, it’s a great way to make new friends.
⚡️Quick Tip: Be kind to yourself. Remember it’s okay to feel a bit out of place at first! And keep in mind, there’s a high chance other people will be flying solo as well.
🫣 Unjolly Excuse 3 - “But I’m nervous to talk to people”
🎄 Jolly Solution: First, understand that feeling nervous is totally normal and very common.
The holiday season is the perfect time to step out of your comfort zone because the atmosphere is filled with warmth and people are generally more welcoming.
You can break the ice by saying something nice about someone’s outfit, asking what they’re up to for the holidays, or just talking about the party vibes, music, or food.
Even try something as simple as “That drink looks delicious, what is it?”
Lastly, buying someone their next drink is a nice gesture and a low investment to get a friendly conversation going.
⚡️Quick Tip: Many people at social events are in the same boat as you. They might also feel nervous or alone, so be the first to extend your hand and introduce yourself. You’ll be pleasantly surprised by their responsiveness.
⭐️PRO TIP!⭐️ Holidays = Perfect Date-Asking Time 👩🏼❤️👨🏽
Women are typically more open and receptive to new experiences right now. It's an ideal time to extend an invitation for a date.
Think unique, fun, and festive – grab tickets to The Nutcracker, go ice skating, check out a Christmas market or light show.
Or Click here for my 5 fun-filled, alcohol-free date ideas.
GOOD NEWS…
I’m personally hosting ‘Becoming Mr. Right’ again, live on Zoom.
It’s the last masterclass I’ll be doing this year.
If you join me, you’ll learn:
🔥How to build unshakable confidence.
🔥How to triple your matches on dating apps (even if you don't look like Brad Pitt).
🔥How to receive messages from the type of women you’re seeking.
🔥How to confidently approach women, feel at ease and score.
And because it's the last one, I decided to do something a lil special…
I’m providing you with $650 worth of value for just 22 bucks!
Consider it an early Christmas present 😄 But hurry, the price is doubling in a few days.
IT’S TIME FOR ACTION! THIS WEEK’S MISSION IS…
‘Merry Mingle’
When I coach clients, we don't just chat over coffee. We roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty.
That's why every week, I bring you the Man Up Mission. Think of it as your weekly homework with a fun twist, designed to get you real results in your dating life.
📬 ‘Merry Mingle’ is all about making a solid commitment to your social life.
This week, your mission is to lock in 2 social events for the month. You have 7 days to complete the following steps:
Step 1 - Research: Scope out a handful of paid events happening this month. Look for ones that really catch your eye, align with your interests, and get you feeling a bit excited.
Step 2 - Commit: Choose 2 events and make it official by purchasing your tickets. Add them to your calendar.
Step 3 - Fly Solo: Decide to attend at least 1 of these events by yourself.
This mission is about change, growth, connecting with yourself as well as new people, and stepping into the holiday season with confidence.
You got this 💪🏽
I WANNA HEAR FROM YOU! 👂🏽
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That's all for now!
If you’re ready for more in your love life, text me “I want to change!” at (647) 372-5414, and I’ll personally respond🫡
—Coach Kavita ❤️