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The worst dating advice of all time
Greetings Gentlemen,
Welcome to the upside of the dating world. Iâm Coach Kavita đđťââď¸ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.
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If you keep getting advice to just âbe yourselfâ
And youâre wondering why nothing is workingâŚ
Itâs because of this.
Over all the years of not getting attention from women, or feeling rejected, or going through breakupsâŚ.
You start to develop this protected, fearful persona.
And over time, this fearful version of you that is trying to connect with womenâŚ
Is not a version that women can connect with.
But everyone around you keeps telling you to just âbe yourselfâ!
So you keep operating the same way and keep getting the same resultsâŚ
Sound familiar?
What I'm about to tell you is one of the most important things I have ever shared with my clients.
Sometimes being yourself can actually mean having to act in a way that feels unnatural at first.
But whatâs really going on is you are unlearning and shedding the behaviours that have not been serving you.
Because the truth is, your authentic selfâthe âreal youââcan connect with women. Easily!
And he can get dates, and he can find a girlfriend. Everything is available to him.
But until you shed the protective layers that have accumulated, and rediscover who that isâŚ.
âBeing yourselfâ just isnât going to work.
So whatâs are you supposed to do about it?
Itâs time to discover the sides of yourself that have been dying to be explored.
Itâs tiiiiime to reconnect with your authentic self.
Meanwhile, if youâre ready for help, apply to work with me in Huddle Eleven Elite, my advanced group coaching program for men.
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âCoach Kavita â¤ď¸
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