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💌 Why 'Being Yourself' Will Keep You Single—And What To Do Instead

The worst dating advice of all time

Greetings Gentlemen,

Welcome to the upside of the dating world. I’m Coach Kavita 🙋🏻‍♀️ Love Coach for Men. Each week, I share expert dating advice to help you get better at dating.

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If you keep getting advice to just “be yourself’

And you’re wondering why nothing is working…

It’s because of this.

Over all the years of not getting attention from women, or feeling rejected, or going through breakups….

You start to develop this protected, fearful persona.

And over time, this fearful version of you that is trying to connect with women…

Is not a version that women can connect with.

But everyone around you keeps telling you to just “be yourself”!

So you keep operating the same way and keep getting the same results…

Sound familiar?

What I'm about to tell you is one of the most important things I have ever shared with my clients.

Sometimes being yourself can actually mean having to act in a way that feels unnatural at first.

But what’s really going on is you are unlearning and shedding the behaviours that have not been serving you.

Because the truth is, your authentic self—the ‘real you’—can connect with women. Easily!

And he can get dates, and he can find a girlfriend. Everything is available to him.

But until you shed the protective layers that have accumulated, and rediscover who that is….

‘Being yourself’ just isn’t going to work.

So what’s are you supposed to do about it?

It’s time to discover the sides of yourself that have been dying to be explored.

It’s tiiiiime to reconnect with your authentic self.

Meanwhile, if you’re ready for help, apply to work with me in Huddle Eleven Elite, my advanced group coaching program for men.

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—Coach Kavita ❤️