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Here are 5 DMs to get her attention, The C.H.A.T Method, and more!
The Dating Dose
March 23, 2024
“You don’t need to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.”
— Martin Luther King
Greetings Gentlemen!
It’s Coach Kavita here 👩🏻 I’m a Love Coach for Men, and the Writer behind The Dating Dose!
I help growth-minded men (just like you) re-enter the dating world, build unshakable confidence, and find LOVE! ❤️
Each week, I’ll be here sharing the kind of expert dating advice and insights that clients pay the big bucks for 💰
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In Today's Dose... 💉
🤳🏻 The C.H.A.T Method
😍 DM-ing Made Easy
💌 5 Free Templates
💪🏽 Mission: Positive Pulse
AWESOME STUFF I FOUND FOR YOU THIS WEEK…
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Dating Deep Dive
Hello and welcome to the grand finale of my ‘How To Meet Women on Instagram’ series!
We’ve covered a lot of ground over the last few weeks... So if you’re just joining us, make sure to catch up:
Today, we're diving into the most anticipated part of the series 🔥
It’s finally time to….
Shoot your shot!
That’s right boys. In this final piece, I’m going to break down my C.H.A.T Method 👇🏽
The C.H.A.T Method — A strategic guide to DMs that grab a woman’s attention 👩🏻
This simple yet powerful method is designed to help you craft DMs (direct messages) on Instagram that not only make you stand out but also:
Emphasize authenticity
Convey honest intention
Spark her interest
And all without a tired pick-up line in sight!
Disclaimer: This method will NOT work if you aren’t following the other steps in the series 🚫
The C.H.A.T Method also encourages a healthier mindset for you, steering clear of the common pitfall of expecting instant replies on social media.
I’ve made it easy, foolproof and even shared 5 examples you can use as templates.
So what does C.H.A.T stand for? 👇🏽
C — Call Out
Always start your DM with her name to immediately make your message feel personal.
H — Highlight
Next, highlight something that has repeatedly caught your eye on her profile or stories, ideally something you both geek out about.
This is how you show her you’re paying attention and not just hitting up random profiles.
A — Ask
Finally, round off your message by asking a casual, light-hearted question that’s easy to respond to.
It doesn’t need to tie directly to her profile or even your shared interests. The beauty here is in the simplicity.
Here are 5 Examples of DMs using the C.H.A.T Method
“Hi Divya! Your sunrise runs are super motivating 🏃♀️ I'm also a morning workout person – can’t start my day without it. I’m in Waterford, what part of city are you from?”
“Hey Melissa! That home office setup you have is serious goals 🖥️✨. I WFH too and on the hunt for a new standing desk. What line of work are you in?"
“What’s up Sonia! Been enjoying your healthy recipes. Actually tried making the almond flour banana bread (don't ask me how it turned out 😋). How’s your week starting off?”
“Hi Tina! Saw your book collection and I'm a bit jealous 🙈. My kindle can’t compete! I’m Eric btw 🙂 How’s your week been so far?”
"Hello Lara! Your travel tips are a lifesaver 🙌🏽 Will def give your jet lag remedies a try as I’m heading overseas next week. Where did you learn all this?”
Last but not least… T is for Time.
Once your message is out there, give it time.
This step is a gentle reminder about respecting the pace of online interactions and not expecting or pressing for immediate responses.
Just a heads-up: if she isn’t following you back yet, your message might slide into her ‘requests tab’, which means she may not spot it right away.
🙋🏻♀️ Make sure to scroll down for this week’s Man Up Mission, where I reveal 2 secret pieces to Instagram dating success.
PRO TIP! 💡Keep your story game strong
Use your stories! 🎞️
When you're deep into sending DMs using the C.H.A.T Method, having an active story can really boost your replies from women.
A simple share of what's happening in your day, a snapshot of your morning coffee ☕️ , a line from a book you're reading 📚 or even a re-post of something inspiring is all you need.
As we bring this series to a close, remember… There's no such thing as too many DMs if…
So start planting those seeds and don’t hold back!
Think of Instagram as your new dating app.
Like on Bumble, one match and one message won’t cut it. It's a cycle of following, connecting, and gradually building those ties.
You've got a fresh way to meet women and the playbook to go along with it — It's in your hands now!
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Signing off, gentlemen 🫡
-Coach Kavita
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When I coach clients, we don't just chat over coffee. We roll up our sleeves and get our hands dirty…
That's why every week, I bring you the Man Up Mission. Think of it as your weekly homework with a fun twist, designed to get you real results in your dating life.
📬 This week’s mission is called: ‘Positive Pulse’
You’ve been on a roll tackling action items in this series for 3 weeks… From refreshing your IG profile to building rapport with new people.
So this week, we're not focusing on doing more, but on embracing the 2 virtues that make all this effort truly pay off:
1. Positivity - Each day, take a moment to reflect on the progress you’ve made. Acknowledge the effort you’re putting in and stay upbeat.
2. Patience - Trust that the seeds you’ve planted will bloom. Sometimes the best action is to hold steady and let the good vibes you’ve sent out come back to you.
Have fun! You got this! 💪🏽
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